Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Are We Doing Enough?

Are we doing enough?

Here is my struggle. Jesus calls us to do some extraordinary things in the gospels. When he gives us the parable of the “good Samaritan” he commands at the very end to “go and do likewise.”

Treat our neighbors with love, dignity, respect, and virtue; to care for them even to the detriment of ourselves. Go and give your money, time, energy, and all that is at your disposal to help those who need help. Not just those who are Christians but those who are not. Help the drug addicts, the prostitutes, the worst in our society. Help them.

That’s hard! How can we do this? Here is a famous story from Tony Campolo. He’s a great speaker and this is what Jesus had in mind.

A few years ago Tony flew to Hawaii to speak at a conference. The way he tells it, he checks into his hotel and tries to get some sleep. Unfortunately, his internal clock wakes him at 3:00 a.m. The night is dark, the streets are silent, the world is asleep, but Tony is wide awake and his stomach is growling.

He gets up and prowls the streets looking for a place to get some bacon and eggs for an early breakfast. Everything is closed except for a grungy dive in an alley. He goes in and sits down at the counter. The fat guy behind the counter comes over and asks, "What d'ya want?"

Well, Tony isn't so hungry anymore so eying some donuts under a plastic cover he says, "I'll have a donut and black coffee."

As he sits there munching on his donut and sipping his coffee at 3:30, in walk eight or nine provocative, loud prostitutes just finished with their night's work. They plop down at the counter and Tony finds himself uncomfortably surrounded by this group of smoking, swearing hookers. He gulps his coffee, planning to make a quick getaway. Then the woman next to him says to her friend, "You know what? Tomorrow's my birthday. I'm gonna be 39." To which her friend nastily replies, "So what d'ya want from me? A birthday party? Huh? You want me to get a cake, and sing happy birthday to you?"

The first woman says, "Aw, come on, why do you have to be so mean? Why do you have to put me down? I'm just sayin' it's my birthday. I don't want anything from you. I mean, why should I have a birthday party? I've never had a birthday party in my whole life. Why should I have one now?"

Well, when Tony Campolo heard that, he said he made a decision. He sat and waited until the women left, and then he asked the fat guy at the counter, "Do they come in here every night?"

"Yeah," he answered.

"The one right next to me," he asked, "she comes in every night?"

"Yeah," he said, "that's Agnes. Yeah, she's here every night. She's been comin' here for years. Why do you want to know?"

"Because she just said that tomorrow is her birthday. What do you think? Do you think we could maybe throw a little birthday party for her right here in the diner?"

A cute kind of smile crept over the fat man's chubby cheeks. "That's great," he says, "yeah, that's great. I like it." He turns to the kitchen and shouts to his wife, "Hey, come on out here. This guy's got a great idea. Tomorrow is Agnes' birthday and he wants to throw a party for her right here."

His wife comes out. "That's terrific," she says. "You know, Agnes is really nice. She's always trying to help other people and nobody does anything nice for her."

So they make their plans. Tony says he'll be back at 2:30 the next morning with some decorations and the man, whose name turns out to be Harry, says he'll make a cake.

At 2:30 the next morning, Tony is back. He has crepe paper and other decorations and a sign made of big pieces of cardboard that says, "Happy Birthday, Agnes!" They decorate the place from one end to the other and get it looking great. Harry had gotten the word out on the streets about the party and by 3:15 it seemed that every prostitute in Honolulu was in the place. There were hookers wall to wall.

At 3:30 on the dot, the door swings open and in walks Agnes and her friend. Tony has everybody ready. They all shout and scream "Happy Birthday, Agnes!" Agnes is absolutely flabbergasted. She's stunned, her mouth falls open, her knees started to buckle, and she almost falls over.

And when the birthday cake with all the candles is carried out, that's when she totally loses it. Now she's sobbing and crying. Harry, who's not used to seeing a prostitute cry, gruffly mumbles, "Blow out the candles, Agnes. Cut the cake."

So she pulls herself together and blows them out. Everyone cheers and yells, "Cut the cake, Agnes, cut the cake!"

But Agnes looks down at the cake and, without taking her eyes off it, slowly and softly says, "Look, Harry, is it all right with you if...I mean, if I don't...I mean, what I want to ask, is it OK if I keep the cake a little while? Is it all right if we don't eat it right away?"

Harry doesn't know what to say so he shrugs and says, "Sure, if that's what you want to do. Keep the cake. Take it home if you want."

"Oh, could I?" she asks. Looking at Tony she says, "I live just down the street a couple of doors; I want to take the cake home, is that okay? I'll be right back, honest."

She gets off her stool, picks up the cake, and carries it high in front of her like it was the Holy Grail. Everybody watches in stunned silence and when the door closes behind her, nobody seems to know what to do. They look at each other. They look at Tony.

So Tony gets up on a chair and says, "What do you say that we pray together?"

And there they are in a hole-in-the-wall greasy spoon, half the prostitutes in Honolulu, at 3:30 a.m. listening to Tony Campolo as he prays for Agnes, for her life, her health, and her salvation. Tony recalls, "I prayed that her life would be changed, and that God would be good to her."

When he's finished, Harry leans over, and with a trace of hostility in his voice, he says, "Hey, you never told me you was a preacher. What kind of church do you belong to anyway?"

In one of those moments when just the right words came, Tony answers him quietly, "I belong to a church that throws birthday parties for prostitutes at 3:30 in the morning."

Harry thinks for a moment, and in a mocking way says, "No you don't. There ain't no church like that. If there was, I'd join it. Yep, I'd join a church like that."

That’s the kind of church I want to join too. Let’s do things differently. Join this blog and post some ideas of things we can do here in Atlanta to emulate the words of Jesus. I want to shock the pants off of this city! Let’s host a spa day for prostitutes. Let’s give the homeless a five course dinner in The Dining Room at The Ritz-Carlton, Buckhead. Let’s take the orphans to six flags. Let’s think outside the confines of this world and look at it slightly upside down, as Jesus intended it.

Travis

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Something better

I heard this story and it warmed my heart and gave me hope. Hopefully it will do the same for you.

A child named Sarah was standing with her mother at the wal-mart check out line. Her mother had successfully diverted her eyes from all time and money wasting things...until this moment. Sarah's eye was caught by a plasticy, cheapo pearl necklace hanging there at the cashwrap. She timidly asked her mother if she could buy it for her. "Please mommy...I love it. I really really want it." Her mother finally agreed by reminding her she did have a small bit of allowance that she could use. She thought it was a bargain at $3.99.

Sarah wore it everywhere. She wore it outside to play, she wore it to school, she wore it to church, she wore it to bed, and she even would have worn it in the shower except that her mother thought it might turn her neck green. Sarah agreed that would be gross; but as soon as she was dry, she put it back on immediately.

One night her father came in to tuck her in for the night. He asked Sarah for her pearl necklace. She said "no! I love it. I can't let you have it." He said ok and tucked her in.

The next night was the same. Then the night after that. Then the one after that. This went on and on until her father would just come in with his hand out and she would just shake her head "no."

Finally one night with tears in her eyes she regretfully handed him the necklace. He took it with a smile and put it in his pocket. From the other pocket he pulled out a real pearl necklace with a gold clasp and put it around her neck. She was overcome with joy as was he. She couldn't find the words to say what she felt. Finally she simply said, "you had it there all along didn't you?" He smiled and nodded "yes."

Woody Allen was once quoted, after he had an affair with his adopted adult daughter, "the heart wants what the heart wants." This is true, however most of the time, the heart is dead wrong. We ought to trust God and realise that he has something better for us, if we'll just be humble and admit that we need it.

Travis

Saturday, June 13, 2009

Dogs playing piano

Hi Everyone!

I am feeling like a million bucks today. Sleep is a wonderful thing.

On a more serious note I would ask you all for some prayer. My Dad is in the hospital with some chest pains and they are trying to sort that out. He's tough in his spirit but I know he's scared all at the same time.

I am starting to shape this whole "church" thing into something more tangible. I think for right now it will consist of a Sunday evening message posted via podcast. This will be crappy at first, but hang in there with me because I think it can turn into something cool. If it becomes something where people want to get together in person and pray, talk, laugh, and otherwise just be together in a semi public/private venue...(I vote Starbucks)...that will be fine too. I have to tell you...all 300+ facebook "friends" you have all been important to me in my life at some point or another. We might not be as close now as we were way back then, but I think it is something that we still deep down want to keep those connections at arm's length.

Rambling on and on I'm sure Lisa is ready to go to Target...Seacrest out!

Thursday, June 11, 2009

Questions

I have questions for you. When it comes to church (the community...not the building) what do are you looking for?

Furthermore there are many people who are uncomfortable with the entire concept of church...what has turned you away in the past? Why is church such a hard place for you to go?

I invite an open dialog on church...are we burned out on religion? I can tell you that God is too. I want to know why we can't have a community where everyone is accepted. I think it is possible.

Check back for updates on cool interactive stuff. My friend Phillip is now The New Room's "tech guy"...sweet of him to offer his bedroom to record podcasts. I'm still looking for graphic design help.

I also intend on making a facebook page. I'd like it to serve as a forum of sorts for discussion on topics. I don't know. It is 3:41am right now and I'm super tired.

Mucho amo,

Travis
Welcome to The New Room. This is an upstart church. I don't have a building, I don't have any money, and I don't have any members. It's just me so far. Instead of focusing on what I don't have, let me spend a minute to tell you about what I do have.

I have my beautiful wife, Lisa. I have a charge from God to explain Him to his creation in a way that they can understand.

Look for a post every week as I try to get this church off the ground, with God's help.

Travis Riner